Which Dildo do I use? 5 tips for how to use a dildo.

If you are or become a dildo lover there is a very good chance you will end up with a collection of them. This will most likely be related to the fact that they are both great sex toys but also they can come in amazing deisgns which create a beautiful collection.

With that said lets talk about dildo’s!

If you like thrusting actions using a dildo on your own can be fun but hard work. If you have movement restrictions or limitations for any reason even it can make it even harder work. If reaching is an issue and you want to make it less like hard work a longer or a C-shaped dildo may help.

If you have arm, shoulder or wrist issues may want to look for a curved or “ergonomic” shape to make thrusting easier. You may also want to look for something on the lighter side, so where you can check for weights on sex toys.

We never thought we would use a vegetable as a phallic symbol but here we are.  Picture is of a yellow zucchini on a blue background.

We never thought we would use a vegetable as a phallic symbol but here we are.

Picture is of a yellow zucchini on a blue background.

Dildo’s are penetrative toys and as we have outlined before penetration/intercourse be it vaginal or anal s better, more pleasurable when you are ready for it so warmed up and also when there is enough lubrication. So don’t just jump straight in to inserting your dildo. Partnered play, try some kissing or other foreplay or solo play, tease yourself with your hands, try using a vibrator before you insert the dildo. As we get turned on we relax, that goes for our vagina or anus, they relax too which means there is less chance of pain or resistance, so take you time and enjoy the pleasure before you progress.

Sex toys come with instructions but at the core they are about play and experimentation. Dildos are no exceptions, actually theire versatility makes them great for experimentation. So as much as you like the feeling of thrusting whey not try different depths, speeds and angles. Or try twisting or rocking your dildo or wiggling it back and forth inside of you.

Lubricant makes any kind of penetration more pleasurable so always use a quality lubricant when you play with your didlo. Silicone dildo’s like the ones we stock in our main store may need more lubricant and it is is best to use a water based product with these sex toys. While glass (like the ones in our clearance store) or metal may need less.

Dildos, just like any other sex toy, can be great for solo or partner play. Dildo’s like any other sex toy are a compliment to your sex life not competition or a replacement for a partner. This is important to remember especially when you are playing with a partner or in a relationship, enjoy your sex toy but remember that intimacy and connection with that person is the priority and not the sex toy.

Dildo’s like other sex toys are great facilitators for your fantasies. So why not imagine your dildo is one of your fantasy sex partners - cheat sheet. If you are wearing the dildo as a strap on pretend it is a part of you. However you see a didlo fitting into your fantasy, imagine that in your play. Always make anything you do safe - sane and consensual.

All that is well and good but now for some techniques you can try with your dildo;

  1. Thrusting downward - Play with angles no matter the shape of your dildo. Try lying on your back and trust the dildo downwards towards the back of your body. This can mean that the base of the dildo is near your clitoris which can be very pleasurable for some.

  2. Thrusting upwards - Logically this is the opposite action to the previous suggestion. The tip of the dildo pointed at the front side of your body if you're lying on your back. This means when thrusting you may just find your G-spot, a super-sensitive area that many find highly pleasurable. If something potentially that intense is not for you then gently rocking with a curved dildo can feel amazing.

  3. Twisting motions - The vaginal opening has tons of sensitive nerve endings so twisting a dildo around can help stimulate that area, even more so if it is a textured dildo.

  4. Doubles - If you like anal play you can use a butt plug or anal beads or even another dildo at the same time and inserting a didlo vaginally. This can be really pleasurable for some because the anal toy puts internal pressure on the vaginal canal, which makes it tighter and more sensitive to however you move your dildo.

  5. Do you - You can take that however you like but essestially we are saying everyone is different, so find the dildo that works for you and the technique that works for you. Think about what you have liked in the past, do your research on products, don’t be afraid to experiement with some options and have fun playing.

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Disclaimer: The information contained in this document should be read as general in nature and is only to provide and overview of the subject matter. Please read product packaging carefully and follow all instructions. Seek advice specific to your situation from your medical professional or mental health professional.