“I have been tearing myself apart because I can't have a baby anymore, I don't have a job anymore, I can't have sex, I am in pain all the time and tired. There have been times when sex has caused the kind of pain that makes me throw up and that makes me want to crawl out of my body.Read More
How do I tell my partner I want to use sex toys at the same time we have sex? I don’t want to hurt their feelings. This is a very common question.Read More
Q: Male condoms have been available for decades. Now, there is a female condom, but it is hard to find places that sell it. I've never seen them in pharmacies. Would you explain their advantages, and disadvantages, and why they are not readily available, please? I know that they are expensive.Read More
Touch is a sense that in today’s busy digital age we are engaging in less and less. This arguably plays a part in the increase in loneliness, mental and emotional health issues of today. Despite the many positives that technology has brought to our lives or innate need for connection has not evolved to the point where touch is no longer needed for our physical and emotional health – no not even robotic sex dolls can replace consensual, pleasurable human touch. Physical touch is vital for our health.
A favourite topic of mine.Read More
It is hard to feel sexy, experience desire or want to be intimate when you feel like your body has been medicalised and it doesn't feel like it is your body anymore or you are so busy taking care of everyone else.Read More