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Jodie West
What is anal sex?

What is anal sex?

Butts we all have one and whether you know it yet or not just like your genitals, your anus can be very sensitive and can be an enjoyable part of sex. So, what is anal sex? It is when an object, penis, or sex toy (designed for anal sex, no not all toys are suitable for anal sex) is consensually inserted into the anus (yours or someone else’s) during sex. It doesn’t have to be full penetration it can range from playing externally around the anus with a finger to inserting fingers, sex toys, or a penis. Externally and internally the...

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Jodie West
5 Ways to Sexual Pleasure Without Penetration

5 Ways to Sexual Pleasure Without Penetration

If we say Sex what do you think? You would not be alone in thinking intercourse when you hear the word sex. You would also not be alone in thinking that intercourse in the be-all and end-all of sex……… It makes the Bliss staff a little sad to hear how common this thinking is. Intercourse is not the way the many clitoris-owning people experience pleasure and orgasm. Most of us with vulvas find that clitoris is the powerhouse of pleasure but for many it is underutilized and underappreciated. Patriarchy, poor sex education, taboos around female pleasure, or other cultural influences...

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Handsfree Self Love Ideas

Handsfree Self Love Ideas

Some medical conditions can make it difficult to hold things for a long time. So masturbation can make hands tired and sore, and mean holding a vibrator or a toy for a long time is not possible. There are ways to have play handfree and not let your medical condition stop you from exploring your pleasure. How exciting that you are open to the idea of finding what works for you! There are so many ways to masturbate handsfree and less taxing on your body. Here are some ideas for you; 1.     Use a showerhead. 2.     If you have a spa, the jets can be useful.  3.     Test...

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Valuing Your Pleasure is Sexual Self Care.

Valuing Your Pleasure is Sexual Self Care.

Pleasure is the ultimate form of sexual self-care or self-care in general. Pleasure is an important part of a happy healthy life and a priority in general self-care and sexual self-care. It encompasses all the points before it and more. Valuing your pleasure is a part of valuing, accepting, and loving yourself. It can be a great way to support your mental health. Having said that it can be hard for many women to stop and take care of themselves first because we are taught to take care of others. Masturbation is a way to incorporate pleasure into your self-care...

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