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An Introduction to Bondage Gear – 11 products to explore.

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In 2019 we streamlined our catalog of products and in 2020 we are beginning to build on that, testing and reviewing more products including some luxurious BDSM products. The goal is to build a collection of luxurious bondage items that will appeal to both beginners and those more experienced couples who want to add some more luxurious items to their collection. Whether you are just curious about being blindfolded or want to be tied down and tickled, the following products will make for a truly unique couple's experience.

The range will include products made from luxurious materials such as silk, suede, satin, leather or vegan leather and feathers for a real treat that looks and feels like a luxury.

  1. Blindfold - Sensory Deprivation is often a cornerstone of BDSM scenes. When one sense is removed, the others become magnified which is why we love it. Coco de Mer’s Leather Blindfold is a great product to experiment with. Made from high-quality leather. Great for roleplay Coco De Mer’s blindfold is a great product for couples looking to step up their play If satin is more your thing then the Scandal Blackout Eye mask is perfect for those looking to dip their toe in the BDSM pool.
  2. Flogger - Different kinds of floggers produce different kinds of sensations. The wider and softer the falls the gentler the flogger will be. Suede products like Sensua Suede Whip will be gentler than heavier leathers and faux leathers. If you are after something with a little more sting choose a flogger with thinner, stiffer falls or falls made from rubber or nylon.
  3. Tickler - is the perfect mix of sugar and spice. The feathered end will tantalize and tease your partner through all stages of pleasure. The Sex & Mischief Feather Tickler allows you to explore the other end of that spectrum with the faux leather riding crop that delivers a satisfying snap that will satisfy your inner submissive side. Lelo offers a luxurious step up in the tickler stakes and will delight anyone looking to explore sensory pleasure.
  4. Bed or Room Restraints - Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint is an 8 Point of Love Bed Restraint made of a comfortable set of velcro cuffs that are joined together with a pair of 152cm/60” adjustable tethers. It is easy to set up and will fit any mattress perfect for exploring pleasures of domination and submission.
  5. Crop - are versatile impact play tool that can be mild or rather stingy depending on how they are used. Go gentle on the genitals or nipples or harder on the thighs or arse. Coco de Mer Leather Riding Crop Brown is made from the finest of leather and is exquisitely braided with a folded leather tip.
  6. Cuffs – The Etherea Silk Cuffs restrict everything but pleasure with these silk restraints. They have a jacquard pattern on one side and soft suede on the other and the design allows them to be used on ankles and wrists. Coco de Mer ankle and wrist cuffs offer a sturdier and firmer restraint. Bondage tape or rope (KINK - Bind & Tie Initiation Kit - 5 Piece Hemp Rope Kit) are another possibilities but make sure you have medical safety scissors handy to help release you safely.  The Scandal Corset With Cuffs or Sportsheets neck and wrist restraint are easily adjustable to suit your needs for personalized playtime and they look deliciously elegant.
  7. Gag – Ball gags stuff the mouth and remove your subs ability to speak. Depending on the size, they can be difficult for people with jaw and mouth issues. Some find bar gags or small gags a better option. Scandal Breathable Ball Gag with Cuffs has plenty of holes in the ball gag to make it easier to breathe. The parts of this gag that touch your skin are soft and plush and the added bonus of the cuffs allows your customize how much movement your sub has and still allows you the freedom to remove the gag but keep your partner restrained with the cuffs. If leather is more to your liking you need Coco de Mer Leather Ball Gag is worth a try.
  8. Chokers and leash – A choker is a perfect necklace for your boldest outfit or as a clear sign of submission. Take sensuality out onto the streets! Add a leash a switch things up a notch, lead your partner as you explore the pleasure of bondage together. The Saffron Leash and Collar or the wide choker with leash by bijoux indiscreets.
  9. Wartenberg Pinwheel aka Pleasure Wheel – allows you to indulge in a different form of sensory play. Scandal Pleasure Wheel has a 22-point wheel and is made from heavy-duty, non-tarnishing nickel free zinc alloy. It will thrill, excite and elevate your every intimate moment.
  10. Paddles offer a wide range of sensations. They can be made from wood, metal, plastic, silicone, leather, faux leather and each gives the receiver a different sensation. Some even have soft padding on one side for a gentler more sensual feel. Coco de Mer’s Leather Paddle Brown is a luxurious step into paddle territory. Satisfy your deviant desires with Coco de Mer’s leather paddle Crafted using the finest leather and twin textured versatility this paddle delivers a range of thrilling sensations, from soothing strokes to spine-tingling slaps.
  11. Body Clamps – offer so many possibilities from the labia to the nipples or testicles or lips. These adjustable tweezer-like clamps have a lighter grip than something created with a Japanese clover clamp which creates a firmer pressure.

It is recommended that you have staples like condoms, medical gloves, lubricants, medical safety scissors, baby wipes, waterproof sheets/blanket or towels. A vibrator or dildo is also incredibly fun and useful. Most importantly remember open lines of communication. 

This list is far from exhaustive but it does provide you with a good foundation to explore from. Once you know what you like, what your partner likes you can explore more advanced options.

Lastly don’t forget your imagination, the best play scenes aren’t made by fancy tools alone. Your creativity and willingness to explore are essential elements for when exploring pleasure in this way (again communication, give and take feedback, before during and after).

Disclaimer: The information contained in this document should be read as general in nature and is only to provide and overview of the subject matter. Please read product packaging carefully and follow all instructions. Seek advice specific to your situation from your medical professional or mental health professional. Safe - Sane - Consensual