Bliss Journal — Communication

How do I get the courage to speak up during sex?

How do I get the courage to speak up during sex?

 Q: “I'm usually a pretty talkative, assertive person outside of the bedroom, but the second clothes come off, I freeze. When I'm having sex with my partner, I completely lose the ability to talk. My partner tries so hard to get me to talk and let them know what feels good or want, but I just can't do it. I don’t understand it, I don’t get why I’m like this? How do I get the courage to speak up, how on earth do I find words in the situation?” A: First things first I want you to know communicating...

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9 Tips To Blow Your Partner's Mind in Bed.

9 Tips To Blow Your Partner's Mind in Bed.

There are a few simple, sexy tricks that can light a fire under your sex life. You don’t necessarily need to buy a bunch of sex toys (odd for a sex toy store to say we know but it is true) or offer to drip hot wax on your body to reinvigorate your sex life. Simple things can make a big difference a little bit of enthusiasm and maybe a surprise can go a long way to blowing your partner’s mind in bed. It really can be that simple this summer. 1.   Send a sexy text or three Otherwise called sexting. It...

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Holiday project bedroom makeover ideas.

Holiday project bedroom makeover ideas.

Does your bedroom make you want to be intimate with your partner? Or does it contribute to the stress going on in life? The holidays can be a great time to take on a makeover project. I bet you didn’t even realize that your how your bedroom makes you feel can impact your sex life. Think about different hotel rooms you have stayed in, I bet you can think of some prime examples the power a room can have on your sex life. Have you ever stayed in a hotel with tacky art on the walls, harsh lighting, and scratchy bedsheets? Did...

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Jodie West
I haven’t dated for longer than I care to say so, my question is how do you know if we are sexually compatible?

I haven’t dated for longer than I care to say so, my question is how do you know if we are sexually compatible?

Q. I met this man at a Christmas party and I really like him, we have been on a date since the party and we had a lot of fun. I haven’t dated for longer than I care to say so my question is how do you know if we are sexually compatible? Thank you, for your question and it is exciting to hear that you are ready to date again. Your question is a common one and an important one at this time of the year when it can be easy to get swept up into the excitement of...

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