Bliss Journal — Connection

Jodie West
I haven’t dated for longer than I care to say so, my question is how do you know if we are sexually compatible?

I haven’t dated for longer than I care to say so, my question is how do you know if we are sexually compatible?

Q. I met this man at a Christmas party and I really like him, we have been on a date since the party and we had a lot of fun. I haven’t dated for longer than I care to say so my question is how do you know if we are sexually compatible? Thank you, for your question and it is exciting to hear that you are ready to date again. Your question is a common one and an important one at this time of the year when it can be easy to get swept up into the excitement of...

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How To Help Your Relationship Thrive In The Craziness Of Christmas And NYE.

How To Help Your Relationship Thrive In The Craziness Of Christmas And NYE.

Let’s be real, this time of the year is BUSY. It can feel like you have no downtime, no time for yourself or your partner. With work parties, spending a lot of time with family, Christmas parties, holiday travel, and shopping for gifts can all make the holiday season feel like a crazy blur not to mention stressful. That crazy blur and the stress that comes with it can put a strain on any relationship, however, there are ways to make your relationship more resilient during this time of the year.  Time slips away into the ‘busy’ of the season,...

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Being with another woman is new to me.

Being with another woman is new to me.

Q: “I am new to dating women, so sex with another woman is new to me, exciting but new. Do you have any advice on how to give a woman a handjob? I am not sure what I like myself so maybe I need some tips on how to find out what I like so I know what might work for another woman?” A: Good question! A handjob can be a fantastically pleasurable experience that is often underestimated. You are right in saying exploring what you like first is a great way to have a better idea of what to...

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A Frolic Down Memory Lane - The Ohnut

A Frolic Down Memory Lane - The Ohnut

At Ohnut they believe that everyone has the right to feel connected, healthy, and whole. What is The Ohnut I hear you ask? It is an intimate wearable that can help you manage and potentially reduce pain during sex by allowing you to easily customize how deep penetration goes. It is worn externally at the base of a penetrating partner, e.g. on their shaft or on a toy. The Ohnutcompresses down to act as a soft buffer during sex. Each set comes with 4 linking rings that allow you to make simple adjustments, so you and your partner can not...

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