Bliss Journal — Connection

5 Ways To Make Sex More Fun When You're In A Long-term Relationship.

5 Ways To Make Sex More Fun When You're In A Long-term Relationship.

Q: I've been with my partner for a couple of years. I feel horrible saying this, but sex is a bit boring. Don’t get me wrong we love each other very much. What are some simple ways we can break out of our rut?  A: Thanks for asking the question. It is not easy to speak up and ask. I also want to tell you that it is very common for couples in long term relationships to feel as though their sex routine has become predictable. Many people want to spice things up in the bedroom but don’t know where to start....

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What to do if you love a position but it hurts.

What to do if you love a position but it hurts.

Whether it is doggy style or you on top, each to their own. I think we can all agree it sucks when something you and your partner enjoyed is disrupted when your favorite position hurts. It is actually very common for women to experience discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse. It is also very common that we try to ignore it, by just doing it without complaining or we avoid sex. Neither does you or your partner any favors. If working out ways to get into your favorite positions and getting back into having sex with your partner appeals to...

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Sex without pain is a basic human right!

Sex without pain is a basic human right!

Sex is meant to be about pleasure and not pain, right? The American survey, the ‘National Survey of Sexual Health and Behaviour’ described as the ‘the largest national sex survey ever published’, found that one in three American women experienced some pain the last time they had sex. 75 percent of women have experienced pain during sex at some point in their lives, according to the American College of Gynecologists and Obstetricians. Painful sex happens for a whole range of reasons, including endometriosis, adenomyosis, pelvic floor issues, and the list goes on.   Does this concern anyone else? It is one of the reasons...

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How can using a vibrator during sex increase intimacy in your relationship?

How can using a vibrator during sex increase intimacy in your relationship?

The first thing to know is that vibrators complement what already brings you pleasure not compete with it. They can enhance sex with a partner and allow you to share the pleasure with your partner and increase intimacy between you. You might ask how can intimacy be increased by using a vibrating piece of silicone or plastic? Intimacy has been defined as a situation in which you have a close relationship with someone in which you do or say things that you would share with someone you are close to. The simple answer is shared pleasure and the building of...

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