Bliss Journal — Intimacy

5 Sex Drive Myths.

5 Sex Drive Myths.

Q: I don’t know what happened, but I feel like I have lost control over my sex drive? Spontaneous sex or spontaneous desire for sex – what is that? I really don’t know what went wrong but I would love some tips on how to get my sex drive back. A: Great question and actually very common. I think sharing some of the myths about sex drive and desire might be helpful. Myth #1 – Spontaneous sex. There are two types of sex drives, spontaneous and responsive. Spontaneous sex drives equal feeling the mental desire for sex and seek out...

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For the Conscious Rebel in all of us - 5 Minutes To Feeling Confident In Your Own Skin

For the Conscious Rebel in all of us - 5 Minutes To Feeling Confident In Your Own Skin

When you are naked how do you feel about that? Do you avoid it? Do you love it? For many, this can be an uncomfortable experience! It might bring up judgments, shame, embarrassment, discomfort, avoidance, fear, anxiety, or all of the above. A negative relationship with your own body is not an unusual thing and that can impact your sex life. How I hear you ask, well here are a few; You can be anxious about what a partner thinks when they see you naked. You could do everything in your power to make sure your partner doesn’t see your...

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Jodie West
7 Foreplay Tips To Try Now

7 Foreplay Tips To Try Now

If when you think of foreplay you think the bit before sex, oral or your playbook in this part of sex involves a standard, boob squeeze, a kiss and maybe a fumble with the clitoris it might be time to expand your horizons. PSA: Notice “this part of sex” because foreplay is not the thing that comes before sex it is not something only women enjoy, and it is not something to rush through to get to the main event it is one part of sex. It is one very enjoyable part of all the fun and pleasurable stuff that...

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Jodie West
Foreplay AKA The Entire Point Of Sex!

Foreplay AKA The Entire Point Of Sex!

Foreplay aka “the entire point of sex,” for most women is otherwise known as everything you do before intercourse. There is no right or wrong with what you get up to during this part of play, back massages, neck kisses, oral sex, fingering, spanking, dirty talk, or sexting before you get together. Foreplay is especially important for women to feel excited and turned on enough to enjoy penetrative sex. Without it, penetrative sex can be a whole world of uncomfortable or even painful. Yes, even with a quickie will have some kind of lead up. Foreplay as the lead up...

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