Bliss Journal — Self Love

7 Questions I Have Been Asked As A Sex Educator & Women's Health Advocate.

7 Questions I Have Been Asked As A Sex Educator & Women's Health Advocate.

In the time I have been a sexuality educator and women's health advocate I have been asked some interesting questions. Actually even before that while I was studying at uni, as soon as people found out what I was studying I came across curly questions and surprising statements from people. In this blog, I thought I would share 7 of the general questions I get asked frequently and a short answer for each.  Q: “Is it ok to masturbate in a relationship?” A: The simple answer is YES it is ok to masturbate in a relationship. Masturbation is normal and...

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5 pro tips for traveling with sex toys.

5 pro tips for traveling with sex toys.

Vacation or Holiday sex is great! Hotel sex on steroids really, well staying in a hotel in a new location without the stress of everyday life. Whether you are single or in a relationship, a holiday is a travel infused aphrodisiac for a fling or changing things up with your partner. Whatever your travel plans packing sex toys can be tricky. No one wants to have a vibrator start buzzing in their suitcase and set off alarm bells behind the scenes at the airport or be buzzing as your brother in law helps you get your bag of the luggage carousel. No not...

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How To Help Your Relationship Thrive In The Craziness Of Christmas And NYE.

How To Help Your Relationship Thrive In The Craziness Of Christmas And NYE.

Let’s be real, this time of the year is BUSY. It can feel like you have no downtime, no time for yourself or your partner. With work parties, spending a lot of time with family, Christmas parties, holiday travel, and shopping for gifts can all make the holiday season feel like a crazy blur not to mention stressful. That crazy blur and the stress that comes with it can put a strain on any relationship, however, there are ways to make your relationship more resilient during this time of the year.  Time slips away into the ‘busy’ of the season,...

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Being with another woman is new to me.

Being with another woman is new to me.

Q: “I am new to dating women, so sex with another woman is new to me, exciting but new. Do you have any advice on how to give a woman a handjob? I am not sure what I like myself so maybe I need some tips on how to find out what I like so I know what might work for another woman?” A: Good question! A handjob can be a fantastically pleasurable experience that is often underestimated. You are right in saying exploring what you like first is a great way to have a better idea of what to...

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