Bliss Journal — Sex Positive

The Benefits of Sex Pillows

The Benefits of Sex Pillows

Looking to explore new sex positions but have no idea where to begin? Or do sore joints like a bad back get in the way? Officially designated as a sex toy, sex pillows may be just the ticket for unlocking a whole new world of excitement and pleasure.  What are Sex Pillows? As the name suggests sex pillows are designed for sex more specifically supporting sex positions. So that means they are firm pillows in varying sizes and with various angles that help keep the body aligned and supported during sex. They are designed to not only help you position...

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5 Sex Drive Myths.

5 Sex Drive Myths.

Q: I don’t know what happened, but I feel like I have lost control over my sex drive? Spontaneous sex or spontaneous desire for sex – what is that? I really don’t know what went wrong but I would love some tips on how to get my sex drive back. A: Great question and actually very common. I think sharing some of the myths about sex drive and desire might be helpful. Myth #1 – Spontaneous sex. There are two types of sex drives, spontaneous and responsive. Spontaneous sex drives equal feeling the mental desire for sex and seek out...

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For the Conscious Rebel in all of us - 5 Minutes To Feeling Confident In Your Own Skin

For the Conscious Rebel in all of us - 5 Minutes To Feeling Confident In Your Own Skin

When you are naked how do you feel about that? Do you avoid it? Do you love it? For many, this can be an uncomfortable experience! It might bring up judgments, shame, embarrassment, discomfort, avoidance, fear, anxiety, or all of the above. A negative relationship with your own body is not an unusual thing and that can impact your sex life. How I hear you ask, well here are a few; You can be anxious about what a partner thinks when they see you naked. You could do everything in your power to make sure your partner doesn’t see your...

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How do I get the courage to speak up during sex?

How do I get the courage to speak up during sex?

 Q: “I'm usually a pretty talkative, assertive person outside of the bedroom, but the second clothes come off, I freeze. When I'm having sex with my partner, I completely lose the ability to talk. My partner tries so hard to get me to talk and let them know what feels good or want, but I just can't do it. I don’t understand it, I don’t get why I’m like this? How do I get the courage to speak up, how on earth do I find words in the situation?” A: First things first I want you to know communicating...

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