Bliss Journal

Jodie West
7 Steps to Sexual Bliss - Clue it is all in your head!

7 Steps to Sexual Bliss - Clue it is all in your head!

Q. I constantly read articles telling me how to have better sex or mindblowing orgasms. It gets frustrating because more often than not they end up being click bait and not even very good click bait. I read your article on your best sex tip - touch and thought I would ask you what one other thing you would recommend for a better sex life. Life is so busy and my sex life is important to me, to my partner and I don’t want to waste any more time on clickbait. A. Thankyou for asking your question. I need to...

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5 Best Sex Positions For A Bad Back.

5 Best Sex Positions For A Bad Back.

Back pain impacting on sex is a common problem. A 2014 study by Waterloo University examined the spinal movement of 10 couples engaged in sex. The couples were asked to perform five different sex positions and variations of those sex positions. The study used infrared and electromagnetics, the researchers to find out what the spinal movement in sex positions were most comfortable and where the stressors where on the spine. From there a list of positions that worked or didn’t work, comfort-wise was created. Back pain impacting on sex is a common problem with around 84% of men and 73% of...

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Jodie West
Science Says it is Good for Your Brain to Read Erotica.

Science Says it is Good for Your Brain to Read Erotica.

Q. I have always read romance fiction and now I am an adult I love reading erotic stories. After a super stressful week, it helps me let it all go. Recently my boyfriend read some of one of my books and said it was weird. Am I weird? A. If you've always enjoyed reading romance novels or sexy stories you are not alone. You also probably already know that just sitting quietly turning pages in your favourite sexy story is a great distraction from stress and huge turn on. You are not weird but knowing what happens in your brain...

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Why Silly Sex is Bliss!

Why Silly Sex is Bliss!

Who has grown up watching romance or rom-com movies? Hands up, we know you are out there. From those rom-coms you probably have a very specific idea of what "good" sex looks like. Hot, romantic movie sex is dramatic, perfectly choreographed full of spontaneity, sexual tension, and simultaneous orgasms. Who has sex like that? We asked around the office and no one can say ‘me!’. Make out sessions are not in the perfect location they are more often than not on the lounge in front of the TV, weird noises included. Sexy stripteases or hastily ripping clothes off a piece...

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