Bliss Journal

Foreplay aka “the entire point of sex,” for most women is otherwise known as everything you do before intercourse. There is no right or wrong with what you get up to during this part of play, back massages, neck kisses, oral sex, fingering, spanking, dirty talk, or sexting before you get together. Foreplay is especially important for women to feel excited and turned on enough to enjoy penetrative sex. Without it, penetrative sex can be a whole world of uncomfortable or even painful. Yes, even with a quickie will have some kind of lead up. Foreplay as the lead up...

We would like to introduce our Erotic Author Jane. Jane has been writing short erotic stories for 5 years now and is in the process of writing a novel. She has kindly offered to share some of her short stories here on the Bliss Journal. Last year our Resident Sexologist Jodie wrote an article about erotica and some of the benefits of reading erotica, so the Bliss Team thought Valentine's Day is a good time as any to introduce Jane. “What would you say if I asked you out?” James smiled. My back was turned so James couldn’t tell but...

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, where did January go? I was asked how to approach Valentine’s day when a client had only just started a new relationship? How big or small do you go? It is easy to say why it can feel like a minefield when such a loaded holiday is fast approaching when you are still learning about each other in a new relationship. Here are a few quick tips for navigating the minefield. Talk About It Number one above all, talk about it. No matter the nature of your relationship, exclusive, no strings, poly in any...

Valentine’s day is a great excuse to spoil yourself and prioritize your own pleasure. What better way to do that than with a new sex toy. A toy is the gift that keeps on giving while roses die, your new toy will bring you blissful pleasure night after night. So buy a new sex toy for yourself, or buy one for a significant other. Pop a card in with the present sharing what you would like to do with the toy later. Valentine’s day, romance and sex go hand in hand. So, it seems like the perfect time to invest...